2009年11月15日 星期日

Does TV destroy communication among family and friends?

Does television destroy the communication among family or friends? Is it really affects our relationship with family or friends? In the modern society, people almost have television at home. Sometimes I and my siblings even hope that we can have own television in ourselves bathrooms. It may be very exaggerating but I feel that TV plays a crucial role in our daily life.
In my opinion, I’m not really agreed this idea because I think TV is the most essential device and entertainment in our contemporary society. Also, TV can make us to know numerous information and we can truly know the current incidents recently.
Maybe some people think that watching TV will affect the people’s relationship and it may result in conflict or disputation due to less communication, and they consider the reason is that people only watch TV and waste a lot of times. Actually, watching TV is just the recreation for people. Every people are nearly busy working everyday, and I'm totally convinced that they like to watch TV and relax and rest tranquilly after coming back home.
Although we have more innovative device—computer, we also have internet and we can surf the internet to search for countless information rapidly. I still think that there must have indispensable value in the existence of TV even we have computer now. In our free time, we may kill the time by watching TV. Most important of all, people are supposed to notice the time and it’s very awful that we just watching TV all day long, and we don’t conserve with our family.
I still believe it’s impossible that television destroys the communication among family or friends severely if we control our times cautiously and watch TV in proper times. So in fact, we can not only enjoy watching TV heartily with our friends and family but also we can use this time of watching TV to get along with them joyously.

2009年11月5日 星期四

What makes us an adult?

I think most of the teenagers or children want to become an adult truly, and they also feel like doing things which they consider that it can represent that they are really an adult. In fact, I think it’s necessary to have some indispensable elements to make us an adult. It’s not crucial that what we do can stand for that we are mature completely. And I think of some main essential ways that can help us become an adult.
First, I feel that we should be independent and responsible, and it’s also extremely necessary. Because when we become an adult, we begin to rule our all behaviors, we have to discriminate every thing which is good or bad. Sometimes I think that it’s hard to do totally, but independence is quite required for everyone.
If we are an adult, we can’t rely on our parents or others any more. Most important of all, we have to handle our difficulties by ourselves. It’s impossible that people always depend on their parents, and every child must learn to grow up one day. Also, it’s inevitable that we may encounter many dilemma or trouble which we can handle not very easily, so we have to try our best to overcome all the frustration.
Last ways to make us to become an adult is that we should get through more and more experience. Due to having some dilemma in our life, we accumulate numerous experiences, and I think that these are precious things. From these various experiences, no matter what is good or bad, we can learn many useful principles and lessons in these experiences.
In fact, it doesn’t according to our ages that whether we are an adult or not. If we can execute these main essential ways, I believe everyone can become an adult who is truly mature.